Episode 50 of the Engineering Success Podcast
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LinkedIn Lunatics/Career Craziness
1. Some of these people are brain-damaged (External Recruiter Asked for Current Salary)

2. Unhinged Recruiter trying to give me major FOMO

Engineering College Q’s
Hi guys,
Currently considering doing an exchange semester in the US (UT Austin to be specific). I will have to obtain 30 ECTS credits during the semester, which according to UT Austin should be equivalent to ~15 credit hours. (Ideally I should have even more classes to cover all my required classes that I would have at my home university.) However, everywhere I have looked online tells me that 12 credit hours is the norm. I’m asking here because it seems like most of you guys are in the US.
For context I am in electrical/automation engineering, and I will be doing my exchange during the 4th year of a 5 year masters.
What do you guys think? Is 15 (or even more) credit hours too much?
4. ???? can he even do this

5. why most men do not like women in engineering roles
I’d like to emphasize, that like everything else in this post, the text is from someone that isn’t me. I do NOT endorse any of the things said below.
I am recently retired from a 40 year engineering career in aerospace. Please don’t hate on me, these are factual /real world examples why most men avoid / shun women in the field:
Most women are angry about something most of the time, who wants to be around /work with people like that?
Most men are leery /down right afraid of being accused. the accusation is enough to derail a career so most men avoid women in the field.
Most women are not willing to learn or accept how projects /methods/ or systems are typically run or performed. Many are too ready to push a theory or method they learned in a book or somewhere else and view the push back as being caused by their gender or inexperience. they have no respect for the rules written in blood. In many cases someone died to prove why things are done a certain way.
Women generally blame someone or something else for their failure. many times it is your own hubris / inexperience that caused the failure. In this vein women are many times promoted beyond their skill set to position of authority they are not prepared for. There is a reason that most leadership roles were assigned to those with at least 20-30 years of experience.
Many women did not / do not want to do the hard nasty work required to gain the experience to be an effective engineer. New grads used to be cycled through the shop floor for at least 36-48 months before they go close to an engineering role. This yields book smart engineers who have little or no direct knowledge of the products or systems they are working on.
I have worked with some excellent women in engineering back in the day, they worked hard and knew their shit and when some guy was rude to them they were rude right back, only the weak ones ran to HR.
lastly women have little or no respect for those who came before them, men or women. They think they are the first one to have a thought or have invented the technology. Many things that are thought to be new are not. Engineering is a skill that requires many many years of continuous effort and a passion for life long learning, if you think it is a 9-5 job you are in the wrong field.
Career Advice
6. How do I handle the nervousness on my first day at work out of grad school?
Starting on a new job tomorrow and very nervous. Any suggestions and tips will be much appreciated. Also are there any particular questions I have to ask on the first day? I am a semi-introvert and self conscious about my talents even though I have been good in academics. I am aware that Industry and practical experience must be different from academics knowledge and hence more nervous. What are the things that I must do from day 1- helpful tips to stay on top of my game? TIA
7. I bragged at work and now regret it. How to recover from this?
So few months ago, I found a flaw in the code and a senior member of the team told me it was not a big deal. I heard his explanation and agreed to it.
Yesterday, another teammate found the same flaw and I told him personally about what happened few months ago.
In team meeting, my manager asked about it and I was quick to once again mention how I had found it few months back and was ignored. Manager joked about how everyone should always listen to me.
I now realize that I might have spoken in a ‘i told you so’ manner and this might have left a bad impression on my teammates who are all brilliant in their own right (but humble).
I deeply regret my behavior and can’t stop thinking about it.
How do I make the situation better and improve my image in the team?
8. EIT, salary feels way to low
I have 2 years of internship experience and I am graduating in December. I got my EIT back in July. I’m based in southern California.
A company I’m interviewing next week had a preliminary phone call with me today. On the application, I put the higher range for the salary (82,000) and they said this role is typically starting at 68,000. The range was 66-82. 68?? That feels WAY too low. I was prepared to negotiate down to 80. I’m frustrated because I see others on this sub, no EIT, no experience, getting 76 starting. It’s a mid size design company for water.
Should I walk away from negotiations if they’re not meeting my requirements? I feel like I have experience and my EIT so I should have a higher compensation. There’s not many entry level engineers that do nowadays. I have applied to a few more design firms.
Any tips on negotiating this situation would be super helpful. I don’t want to burn bridges but I want to stand my ground and know my worth. I don’t want to accept it right away either in case other offers come in, any tips on how to tell them I need more time?
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